90: Rising Above the Haters

As you grow your online presence or decide to pivot in your business, haters may surface. I will share with you my personal story and hopefully prepare you so you can handle any situations that may come your way and rise above!

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Hey Goal Diggers got another car episode for you. If you've listened to any of my recent episodes, I am going rogue with the podcasting because I realized that there's a lot of value to maximizing your time in the car. Right. And I really cannot do anything that is inefficient. So what better way for us to connect then while I'm driving. Right. It's so organic and natural. So I'm super excited because Scott took Addison and Elise to the Safari cause his in-law or his aunt and uncle are visiting and I had some stuff I had to get done. So he was like, Hey, let me take them and you know, you'll meet up with us later. And I was like, awesome. So I'm actually doing some shopping. I have a photo shoot coming up. Just need some fresh stuff for marketing and I am shopping you guys like, do you ever like get in the checkout lane and they have like the cute like underwear and you're like, I don't remember the last time I bought any underwear for myself. 

I usually just buy clothes for my kids. So I am beyond excited for this experience. So I'm taking it along for the ride. So we're going to chat about rising above the haters because you might have them openly, you might have them right in your household, not even realizing it, but we're going to talk about why you do not want to retaliate, but you also want to protect yourself. There's a fine line of being bullied and there's a fine line of putting a lot of energy into taking someone else down. Okay? So as you grow your business and as you grow on social media, you are going to run into some haters. You know, it could be as simple as someone messaging you back something nasty. If you reach out to them about taking a look at your business, it could be, you know, a spouse saying something like, you know, is this, you're not even making any money. 

This isn't even a real business, right? Can anyone relate to that? Or it could be some nasty person in your company. This often happens when maybe you are doing one business and you want to add on another business. You know, you're representing two companies. It can happen when you decide to move to a different company or maybe just do something different completely. And that's often when a lot of the hating comes out. So it's so interesting to me because this is definitely a challenge in our industry and why it's gotten such a bad rap is that there's just this, it's called commissionship and commissionship is when your uplines or even people on your team, they will maintain their friendship with you and accept you as long as you're on their team and you know, you're helping them with their commissions or they're benefiting from your work and making money off of you.