108 \\ What to Do When My Adult Children Won’t Clean Up After Themselves

I’m answering a question from a frustrated listener who is struggling to get her adult, college-aged children to clean up after themselves. She has asked them several times but they just won’t and it has left her frustrated. She knows she has probably enabled them when they were younger by not training them in good home management habits but she doesn’t want this to cause continued tension in their relationship.