67. Finding a Rhythm of Rest in Motherhood with Juli Bevere

Welcome to another episode of the Her Effect Podcast! Today, Jaime Cross dives into an enriching conversation with Juli Bevere about the nuances of motherhood, balancing family dynamics, and finding fulfillment. In this episode, Jaime and Juli provide invaluable insights into the beautiful and amazing journey of motherhood. They discuss the importance of intentionality, boundaries, and open communication in fostering a nurturing and balanced family life. Whether you're a new mother or seasoned parent, this conversation offers wisdom and encouragement to help you thrive in your role. Stay empowered, and remember to embrace the simplicity and beauty of knowing and loving your children deeply. Until next time, cherish your role and walk in the power of God's promises for your family.   Links: Join the TRIBE: Get Texts From Jaime Daily To Help EmpowHER: EmpowHER Daily: https://www.empowherdaily.com At Home with the Bevere on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/athomewiththebeveres   Quick Episode Summary: 0:00 - Introduction: Jaime Cross introduces guest Juli Bevere and sets the stage for an insightful discussion on motherhood. 0:22 - Juli's Background: Juli shares her journey, highlighting her identity as a daughter of God, wife, and mother of four. She discusses the legacy she married into and how it aligns with her passions. 3:00 - Early Motherhood: Juli reflects on becoming a mother at 19, the challenges of young motherhood, and the unrealistic expectations she initially had. 5:40 - Overcoming Loneliness: Juli opens up about the loneliness and resentment she felt during the early years of her marriage and motherhood, and how she navigated through it. 7:00 - Rediscovering Identity: The struggle of putting on facades and the journey to finding her true self and purpose as a mother and wife. 9:40 - Motherhood's Reality: Jaime and Juli discuss the importance of recognizing and embracing the full-time role of motherhood and finding purpose and joy in it. 11:30 - Family Dynamics: Juli talks about the importance of family systems and how she and Addison have navigated parenting, setting boundaries, and creating a nurturing environment for their children. 14:00 - Practical Wisdom: Juli shares practical advice for young mothers, emphasizing the significance of letting go of cultural expectations and focusing on what truly matters in raising children. 17:00 - Limiting Activities: The importance of setting boundaries on extracurricular activities to maintain family cohesion and sanity. 21:00 - Media and Technology: Juli and Addison's approach to managing media and technology use in their household, including setting firm but limited no’s. 25:00 - Open Communication: The importance of open and honest communication with children about difficult topics, fostering trust and understanding. 28:00 - Tech and Freedom: Juli discusses the balance between giving children freedom with technology and ensuring they learn from their mistakes within a safe environment. 33:00 - Raising Men: The significance of transitioning roles as children grow, especially in raising boys to become responsible men. 37:00 - Building Community: The value of having a supportive community of parents who are committed to parenting well and leaning on each other for wisdom and support. 41:00 - Knowing Your Children: Practical ways to spend intentional time with children to truly know them and build strong, meaningful relationships. 44:00 - Final Advice: Juli's key piece of advice for mothers is to be intentional with their relationships with their husbands, as a strong marriage provides a solid foundation for the entire family.