Why Resentment Builds & How to Stop It w/ Rudi & Anniston Riekstins
The InPowered Life - A podcast by Rudi Riekstins and Anniston Riekstins - Thursdays

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In this episode of the InPowered Life podcast, Rudi and Anniston pull back the curtain on their relationship to share how they navigate miscommunications, triggers, and emotional distance while maintaining a strong, intentional partnership. Sharing their personal experiences and lessons learned, they provide actionable insights to help listeners create deeper, more connected relationships. Whether it’s a romantic relationship, friendship, or business partnership, this episode is packed with practical advice to strengthen bonds and avoid the trap of resentment. Key Takeaways: Resentment stacks are avoidable: Address misunderstandings early to prevent them from damaging relationships. Triggers reveal personal growth opportunities: Your emotional reactions often mirror unresolved internal patterns. Communicate early, not late: Shorten the time between feeling triggered and resolving the issue. Share your needs clearly: Avoid assuming your partner knows what you need; say it outright. Relationships are growth vehicles: Challenges in relationships are opportunities to learn and evolve together. Quotes: “Your external reality is a mirror. Where you’re triggered is a sign there’s something to learn.” – Rudi “Challenges are opportunities in disguise for you to grow both in your relationship and within yourself.” – Anniston Visit our website: https://www.rudiriekstins.com Follow along at: https://www.instagram.com/the.inpowered.life.podcast/ Stream on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rudiriekstinsChapters: 00:00 - Understanding Relationship Dynamics 02:49 - The Importance of Communication 06:12 - Navigating Emotional Depletion 08:51 - The Role of Misunderstandings 12:08 - The Power of Reflection 14:52 - Learning from Conflict 18:04 - The Mirror Effect in Relationships 20:54 - Personal Growth Through Relationships 23:59 - Creating a Supportive Partnership 26:46 - Transforming Challenges into Opportunities See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.