'i always have to be the hottest b*tch in the grocery store': performativity, identity, + the imaginary audience

do you always have to be the hottest b*tch in the grocery store??? are you really the ~cool girl~, or are you just playing a part? tune in for a convo about performing identity, confidence, and the male gaze-y world of the imaginary audience. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram <3