Cheating, No Contact, and Using the 60 Day Rule to get your Ex Back

The show begins with Sherry loving lavender in many forms and Carla sharing that she doesn’t drink coffee or alcohol! Then, we hear a Love Fix question on rebounding back after a break up and then welcome Lucia, author of “No Contact Secrets” and a Dating and Relationship Expert specializing in helping people get their ex back. She talks about why no contact is the best way to get your ex-back, how to decide if it’s even a good idea to get back together, and the three ladies each share their unique viewpoint on setting boundaries about cheating.    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:    Is rebounding and getting out there after a break up a good idea? How long should you really wait, and does someone else help you truly get your mind off your ex?  Lucia discovered that 60 Days was really the perfect formula for someone to reach out to their ex after a breakup.  Lucia shares her own story of going from heartbreak to having an ex chase her, and why she ultimately decided she did not want to get back together with him. When is it healthy to get back together, and at what point should you definitely NOT get back with your ex?  Some of the red flags to look out for when you are trying to get back together with your ex.  Resources to sign up for Lucia’s Coaching Program, along with ways to work with Sherry and Carla on overcoming codependency and gaining confidence. Lucia’s list of six questions to ask your ex before you get back together.  Why are people so afraid to be alone and would rather cling to bad relationships?  When you need a therapist rather than trying to get your ex back.  Some of the biggest challenges people face when trying to get back with their ex.  Cheating is something that should be discussed in the beginning of the relationship, and why partners need to have radical acceptance when taking back a cheater.  Is adultery really a deal breaker?    Tweetables: “You don’t want to be walking through life still obsessed with the ex that you broke up with or who broke up with you.” - Lucia “You gotta be really radically honest with yourself and radically accept that person for who they really are if you are gonna go back with them.” - Sherry  “If you are hiding infidentaly from your partner, there is something missing within the relationship that needs to be repaired.” - Carla   Connect with Us!   The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Wake up Recovery for Codependency, Love Addiction, and Toxic Relationships — $1 trial membership The Love Fix Relationship Quiz     Get professional online counseling with BetterHelp by clicking here. Thanks to BetterHelp for sponsoring this episode.   Join Sherry’s free webinar, “How to say no without feeling guilty”. Free Masterclass — How to Say No Without Feeling Guilty    Find Out More:    Sherry Website | Instagram | Facebook | Love Smacked | Wake Up Recovery for Codependents and Toxic Relationships     Carla Website | Instagram | Facebook | Contagious Love | Online Dating Bootcamp    Lucia  No Contact Secrets |The Art of Love |  Instagram    Psycho-Cybernetics  Esther Perel