Ditch The Dating Checklist and Get The Guy: Anwar White

Carla and Sherry reveal each of their biggest fears and then answer a Love Fix question on how to recognize the green flags in dating. They then welcome Dating Coach Anwar White, who combines his ability to speak to both men and women easily with his love of statistics to help his clients become the best person and partner possible. Anwar shares the biggest dating hurdle that his smart and successful clients face, and why we need to expand our net and focus less on checking off boxes when it comes to looking for a potential partner. What really holds women back from finding the love they want, need, and deserve? Tune in to find out.   What You’ll Hear In This Episode:   A Love Fix question on how to recognize the “Green Flags” in dating. Anwar White is a certified personal and dating relationship coach and founder of the Get Your Guy Coaching Program and Podcast. Self-described as “super gay,” Anwar has helped men and women understand each other from a young age and it’s his superpower as a coach! Resources to get a free consultation with Anwar, along with ways to work with Sherry and Carla on overcoming codependency, dating, healing from toxic relationships and gaining confidence. What are the biggest pitfalls in love that Anwar sees his super smart and successful women clients face? In order to get what we want out of love, we must first be clear on what we need. Why your checklist of traits may be holding you back from really connecting, and how to identify what really matters when looking for love. Most women narrow down their search to end up open to just .1 percent of the male population! How does our relationship with our parents relate to what we need from our partners? The importance of vulnerability.   Tweetables: “If it doesn’t work out — it’s okay! You had a social experiment.” - Sherry “If you can’t accept yourself there is no way you can accept another person. And if you can’t do that, you can’t be in a long-lasting healthy relationship.”  - Anwar “You never stop getting to know somebody, even if you are married.” - Carla “You can’t possibly connect with another if you’re not connected with yourself.” - Sherry “Dating is about becoming the best person you can be, the best woman you can be, and the best partner you can be.” - Anwar   Connect with Us!   The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Wake up Recovery for Codependency, Love Addiction, and Toxic Relationships — $1 trial membership The Love Fix Relationship Quiz     Sign up for a Connection call with Sherry https://sherrygaba.com/coaching/life-coaching/    Join Sherry’s FREE 5-day Codependency and Toxic Relationship Challenge. Join the FREE Toxic & Codependent Relationship Transformation Challenge    Find Out More:  Arachnophobia 10 Things I Hate About You  Brene Brown    Sherry Website | Instagram | Facebook | Love Smacked | Wake Up Recovery for Codependents and Toxic Relationships     Carla Website | Instagram | Facebook | Contagious Love | Online Dating Bootcamp    Anwar White  Website | Get Your Guy Podcast | Instagram  Today’s episode is sponsored by Carla’s book Contagious Love: Break Free from Codependency for Damn Good and Sherry’s book Love Smacked: How To Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency To Find Everlasting Love.  Thanks to Contagious Love and Love Smacked for sponsoring this episode.