Getting Free From Narcissistic Abuse with Melanie Tonia Evans

Sherry and Carla kick off this week with a Love Fix Question pertaining to letting go of an obsession with a crush that is already taken and in a relationship. They then welcome author, coach, and healer Melanie Tonia Evans to the show. Melanie talks about her own experience hitting rock bottom, and how she found healing tools to break free from her own negative patterns and limiting beliefs to now touch the lives of 6 million people through her work. She also shares why she isn’t a fan of the Law of Attraction, what you should know about Quanta Freedom Healing, the difference between a healthy ego and narcissism, and how to spot narcissistic abuse. Lastly, Melanie talks about the scientific reason behind our brain creating a peptide cocktail that gets us addicted to betrayal, and what we can do about it!   What You’ll Hear In This Episode:   Our advice for one-night stands — when to go for it and when it can create false intimacy. A Love Fix question about how to stop obsessing about someone who is taken and unavailable. Melanie shares how she released her own trauma and healed her own body and pattern of returning to narcissistic abuse. What narcissistic abuse looks like, and how Melanie works with her clients to help them heal in a holistic way that alters their tendency to be in abusive relationships. When we get ourselves healthy from within, we can expand out and deeply help and inspire others. Why you shouldn’t believe that every couple you see posting #couplegoals on social media is perfect every moment of every day! Melanie explains how she discovered quantum physics and Quanta healing, and how it completely changed her mind, body, and spirit and brought her to the truth of her own essence and path. How to join Melanie’s positive and solution-based community, along with resources from Sherry and Carla on overcoming codependency and gaining confidence. The more you show yourself divine self-love, the more you learn to trust yourself and your own gut feelings. How our brain literally creates a peptide cocktail that keeps us stuck in abusive relationships, and Melanie’s advice for taking the first step to get out of it. What Melanie doesn’t love about the Law of Attraction, and how Quanta Freedom Healing uses aspects of Science, Self, and the Soul. Advice for people that just got out of a relationship with a narcissist.   Tweetables: “If someone has to be their own PR agent it’s actually not true.” - Melanie “I literally believe my brain broke. In a great way because what it did was to break down barriers and I saw life as it was. From that moment on, I saw life as it is.” - Melanie “Even codependency is an addiction.” - Sherry “If you are not living by your values and growth and you are trying to change other people to make yourself happy and whole, you are in the wrong town.” - Melanie   Connect with Us!   The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Wake up Recovery for Codependency, Love Addiction, and Toxic Relationships — $1 trial membership    The Love Fix Relationship Quiz     Get professional online counseling with BetterHelp by clicking here. Thanks to BetterHelp for sponsoring this episode.   Find Out More:    Sherry Website | Instagram | Facebook | Love Smacked | Wake Up Recovery for Codependents    Join Sherry’s FREE 5-day Codependency and Toxic Relationship Transformation Challenge beginning April 12 https://sherrygaba.lpages.co/5-day-challenge/    Carla Website | Instagram | Facebook | Contagious Love | Online Dating Bootcamp    Melanie Website | Instagram | Facebook | You Can Thrive Program | You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse