Jealousy, Envy, and Setting Boundaries with Dr. Joli Hamilton

Sherry and Carla start off talking about the serious nature of stalking and how narcissistic partners can show scary traits that can be a form of stalking. They take a Love Fix question from a listener that has trauma from a former controlling partner and is worried that her next partner will also be the same way. They then welcome Dr. Joli Hamilton, the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines. Dr. Joli is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and sex-certified sex educator. Dr. Joli also co-hosts the Playing with Fire podcast with her anchor partner. She’s been also featured in The New York Times and NPR.   Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Get 1:1 Dating & Relationship Coaching The Love Fix Relationship Quiz   Sherry Sign up for your FREE strategy call for life coaching/psychotherapy with Sherry Gaba, Psychotherapist, Life Coach & Author   Join Sherry’s Inner Circle for healing from Narcissistic Abuse, Codependency, and Love Addiction   Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts  "I love Sherry and Carla and The Love Fix!”-  If that sounds like you, please consider the rating and review our show! Scroll down to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Also, if you haven’t done so already, follow the podcast.    Carla Website | Instagram | Facebook | Contagious Love | Online Dating Bootcamp   Joli  Website | Playing with Fire podcast    Sign up to be in the TDR database: https://www.threedayrule.com/CarlaRomo   Today’s episode is sponsored by Carla’s book Contagious Love: Break Free from Codependency for Damn Good and Sherry’s book Love Smacked: How To Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency To Find Everlasting Love    Thanks to Contagious Love and Love Smacked for sponsoring this episode.   What You’ll Hear In This Episode: How is jealousy misunderstood? The ways that jealousy can be used to control a relationship. Joli has outlined over 12 types of jealousy - what is retroactive jealousy? Some of the common things that people get jealous over. How to self-soothe when feeling jealous. Why do some people tend to have more trust than others? What are the core wounds that tend to lead to jealousy? What is neurosomatic intelligence? How envy is different from jealousy. Dr. Joli talks about non-monogamy and how most people never even define what monogamy means in their relationship. Setting boundaries is super important, but they can also be a way to try and control our partners. Take Dr. Joli’s quiz, along with how to work with Sherry and Carla on overcoming codependency, dating, break-ups, healing from toxic relationships, and gaining confidence.   Disclaimer: The Love Fix Podcast content has been made available for informational, entertainment, and educational purposes only. The Love Fix Podcast is distinctly different from coaching, counseling, psychotherapy, or psychoanalysis and does not deal with the diagnosis or treatment of emotional problems. The Love Fix podcast does not constitute medical consultation or treatment, health insurance does not apply.