Sharing Sexual Past With Your Spouse | 14 Days of Sex | Day 6

The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis - A podcast by XO Podcast Network, Dave Willis, Ashley Willis

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast, where we're knee-deep in our 14 Days Of Sex Challenge! Today, we're delving into a topic that's as personal as it gets – the importance of discussing sexual history in a marriage. We're all about full disclosure, baring it all, and having those tough, but crucial, conversations about our pasts. From the number of partners to mindsets, expectations, and insecurities, nothing's off the table. We get real about struggles with pornography and its impact on how sex is viewed. Join us for a raw and honest conversation that hits close to home. ------------------ FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Takeaways Open and honest communication about sexual history is crucial in a marriage. Sexual history includes not only past partners but also mindsets, expectations, and insecurities. Childhood sexual experiences can have long-term effects and should be addressed with compassion and understanding. Seeking counseling and support can help in processing and healing from past sexual trauma. Apologizing and rebuilding trust is important when revealing past actions in a marriage. ------------------ 00:00 Introduction and Importance of Discussing Sexual History 01:00 Understanding Sexual History 02:25 Personal Sexual History 04:18 Embarrassment and Regret in Sharing Sexual History 05:46 Childhood Sexual Experiences 07:11 Trauma and Loss 09:06 Processing Trauma with a Counselor 10:33 Long-Term Effects of Trauma 13:28 Dealing with Regret and Guilt 16:17 Supporting Spouses with Sexual Trauma 17:45 Revealing Past Actions in Marriage 21:03 Moving Forward and Seeking Healing 22:29 Apologizing and Rebuilding Trust 23:28 Conclusion and Encouragement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices