131. Why Men Feel Lost—And How to Reclaim Your Fire

The Path with Mike Salemi - A podcast by Mike Salemi

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"I feel like I've lost myself over the years. I don't even know who I am anymore."I've heard this countless times from men in my groups—and I’ve been there myself. Life transitions like fatherhood, career shifts, breakups, and injuries can leave you feeling disconnected from your fire, your passion, and even your sense of self. But this feeling isn’t random—it’s a pattern, and it has deep roots.In this episode of The Path, we dive into Nice Guy Syndrome, a pattern of people-pleasing, avoiding conflict, and losing yourself in relationships. I’ll share my personal wake-up call, the hidden beliefs that fuel this behavior, and how to break free.We’ll also cover:The three biggest traps that keep men stuckThe difference between solitude and isolationHow to rebuild self-trust and take actionWhy brotherhood and accountability are essential for growthHow small shifts in language can change your storyIf you’ve ever felt lost, this episode will help you find your way back.Links & ResourcesNew Men's Community & GroupLearn More about The Vital Man Collective, click hereUpcoming Men's Retreats:May 17-20th, Primal Reset Retreat Collab with Tim Corcoran, Mt. Shasta, CA - Click HereOctober 9-12th: Flagship Men of Movement Retreat, Mt. Shasta, CA - Click HereConnect with me on Instagram: @Mike.SalemiWebsite