The Yoni Empire on slow sex and true pleasure

“My answer is always this: if it takes you this long to orgasm, let it take you this long to orgasm!”Elena is the creator and author of The Yoni Empire. She is a Slow Sex and Pleasure Educator, a sex researcher, writer and lover of all things pleasure-related. She writes shamelessly about female sexuality and eroticism. A self-proclaimed Pussy Whisperer, Elena is the co-founder of Onna Lifestyle brand which designs natural gemstone pleasure toys for women. She is on a mission to nourish women, one orgasm at a time – connecting heart, body and mind.In this interview Caitlin and Elena talk about– Why we should forget about the race to orgasm and slow down in our pleasure– Why we should cut the grandiose spiritual rituals around sexuality and keep it simple (and why Netflix and hands-down-pants is OKAY)– How true sexual empowerment is choosing what works for YOU (no BDSM, casual sex, open relationships or sex parties required if it’s not your thing)And a tonne of other questions you’ve probably wondered and been too scared to ask.