E537 Ask Nick - There’s No Medal For Staying Friends

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss Amanda’s trip to Vegas, Ali matching with a British man on Hinge, and we Yay-SMR a listener who ended a 10 year long situationship. Finally, we have our most recent Breakup Song of the Week submission. Our first caller is debating pursuing the woman her ex girlfriend cheated on her with. Do they have a connection, or is the instinct out of spite? Our next caller has a long distance boyfriend that has a lot of opinions and criticisms of the outfits she wears. We discuss that it might be less about the outfits, and more about a lack of trust in their relationship. Our final caller is debating how to handle running into her fitness coach now that their relationship has ended. Should she leave her gym, or try to muscle through?  “There’s no medal for being friends with someone you have feelings for.”  If you are interested in running a book club in your city, send an email to: [email protected]   Please make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes.  Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store.  To Order Nick’s Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com Support a Local Bookstore: https://bookshop.org/books/don-t-text-your-ex-happy-birthday-and-other-advice-on-love-sex-and-dating-9798212185622/9781419755491 If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to [email protected] with “Texting Office Hours” in the subject line!  To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Betterhelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at http://www.BetterHelp.com/VIALL and get on your way to being your best self with 10% off your first month.  Grammarly: The right tone can move any project forward when you get it just right with Grammarly. Go to http://www.grammarly.com/tone to download and learn more about Grammarly Premium’s advanced tone suggestions. ZocDoc: Find and book a top-rated doctor today. Many are available within 24 hours. Go to http://www.Zocdoc.com/VIALL and download the Zocdoc app for FREE.  Article Furniture: Article is offering our listeners $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. To claim, visit http://article.com/VIALL and the discount will be automatically applied at checkout. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog