Are You Dating the Right Guy? With Melissa Leger

Name of Expert: Melissa Leger Why I Believe This Person Is A Warrior: Is one of my saving warriors. She saved me during a time in my life when I was drowning. During my craptastic month in 2015, she heard me talking about my many, many issues I was dealing with. She immediately texted me and asked how she could help. Before we finished our texting conversation she had already scheduled housekeepers to come to my house and clean it the next day. She did this while living 3000 miles away from me. I tell you this story because you can clearly see Melissa’s heart in her actions. She truly wants to help people and doesn’t want anything in return, that’s why I believe she is a warrior. Who They Are & Something Only The People Closest To Them Know: Melissa started going to therapy in 2008 because of a major heartbreak and fell in love with it. That began her journey that led to her book now. She watches Friends before bed. Their Battle, Mentally Or Physically, They Fought And Came Out A Warrior: After all her years of bad relationships, she didn't realize that she was dating the wrong guy over and over again. She dated one guy 3 different times and realized she needed to make a change. Warrior They Look Up To: She looks up to her mom immensely. Her mom had to get a divorce from her dad and had to start over. She ended up starting from ground 0 and built herself and her girls up. It was a warrior decision to leave a comfortable, bad situation to take control of her life and accomplish her dreams while raising a family. Heart Of The Interview: Before we dive deep into this interview Melissa asks for you to listen to this with an open mind especially if you are in a relationship. Melissa believes there are two people when you are dating, those that want attention and those that want love. Melissa calls the people that are always drawn to attention is called gumball. When you are dating or around a gumball person you can get wrapped up into this and get lost in it. You are giving your all to those relationships, but they aren’t getting all back. Melissa talks more about this, how to be aware of this, and what to do about if you are dating someone like this. What Being A Warrior Means To Them: It’s about getting up every time you get beat down. Their Greatest Life Lesson Learned: Her greatest lesson is to always choose to live your authentic life versus how society believes you should live. Where You Can Find Them: Twitter: @Melissaleger Periscope: @Melissaleger Instagram: @melissaleger Website: www.melissaleger.com or www.gumballlove.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/coachmelissaleger