TWR 287: Chris Rackliffe: Beyond Talk Therapy + Holistic Approaches to Healing Anxious Attachment

In today’s episode, I talk with Chris Rackliffe, an expert on attachment theory and healing from anxious attachment. Chris shares his own powerful story of overcoming trauma and learning to regulate his nervous system through practices like cold therapy and emotional diversification. We discuss that anxious attachment requires more than just cognitive approaches like talk therapy. To truly heal, you must learn to regulate your nervous system and build tolerance for stress. This involves taking care of your foundational needs, like sleep, nutrition, and hydration, as well as practicing techniques like cold exposure and breathwork.  Chris Rackliffe is a trauma healer, mental health advocate, anxious attachment style coach, and author of the self-help book, It’s Good to See Me Again: How to Find Your Way When You Feel Lost—an illuminating guidebook on the journey to find emotional healing.   Thank you to our sponsors: Cured Nutrition: Use code AMBER get 15% off at https://www.curednutrition.com  HigherDose: Use code AMBER15 to get 15% off at https://higherdose.com    Find more from Chris Rackliffe: Website: https://www.crackliffe.com/  Instagram:@crackliffe Coaching: https://www.crackliffe.com/coaching  Book: It’s Good to See Me Again: How to Find Your Way When You Feel Lost    Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw TikTok: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com    What We Discuss:  03:02 Understanding Attachment Styles 08:14 Healing Journey and Self-Discovery 13:26 Recognizing Anxious Attachment 22:39 Practical Tips for Self-Care 26:23 Building Tolerance with Cold Therapy 29:09 Managing Physical Sensations and Cold Therapy 31:11 Emotional Diversification and Independence in Relationships 34:49 Signs of Codependency and Self-Abandonment 43:23 The Impact on Children and Modeling Healthy Behavior 50:37 Book and Resources for Healing and Coaching