Connection With The Love We Are with Rohini Ross

In intimate partner relationships, we can often believe that change needs to happen in the other person in order for us to be happy. Rohini Ross, and her husband Angus, work with couples and individuals to help them see that our experience of everyone in our lives is coming not from them, but from within us.Rohini Ross loves supporting others with deep healing as they wake up to their true nature. She is sought out for her specialization in Spiritual Psychology. You can listen to her podcast Rewilding Love where she and her husband Angus help a couple on the brink of divorce.You can find Rohini Ross at TheRewilders.org.You can listen above, on your favorite podcast app, or watch on YouTube. Notes, links, resources and a full transcript are below. Show Notes* Discovering spiritual psychology after several career starts * Burning out as a therapist while still becoming licensed * On stress coming from our patterns of throught * Resolving the internal pressure to be worthy of love and acceptance * How the Principles are ‘time release learning’ * Whatever we are looking for is within us * On not taking a partner’s anger personally * Dealing with an autism spectrum diagnosis in a childResources Mentioned in this Episode* George Pransky’s book The Relationship HandbookTranscript of Interview with Rohini RossAlexandra: Rohini Ross, welcome to Unbroken.Rohini: Thank you so much for having me lovely to speak with you.Alexandra: Lovely to see you again too. Tell us a little bit about your background and how you came across the Three Principles.Rohini: Oh, my goodness, where would you like me to start?I originally got a master’s in cultural geography. And that was a switch in my major, I was going to school to be a doctor. And when I got to the pre med classes, second year of them, the science classes, I had a bit of a meltdown. I wasn’t able to do them. And so the dean at that time, because my first year, I got straight A’s. And so it was kind of shocking for me, I’d never struggled academically before. And there was a lot of other things going on as well that were challenging. When I went to the dean, he says, Well, it seems like you’re capable, but maybe you just need to switch to something you enjoy more. That sounds like a good idea. And so I switched to cultural geography, which I’m really grateful for, because it’s very closely aligned with anthropology. And it gave me more global context for understanding things. And it was very inter disciplinary. And so it gave me a lot of freedom. Then, when I was finishing my master’s, I realized that I missed the intention of being in a healing profession. So as much as I enjoyed the academics going on and doing a PhD was appealing. But there was something deeper within me that wanted to continue to look at healing, even if I wasn’t a medical doctor. And so I stopped my studies at that point. I had just decided to move back to England. I was born in England, but raised in Canada. And my father left when I was two and a half. And we hadn’t been reconnected. I knew that he was or I thought he was in England. And so when I was doing my research in Guatemala, for my master’s, I met a woman who lived in London, she ran a Guatemalan Textile Museum in London. And she said, you can come and work in the museum, and I’ll trade. I have a flat that you can stay in. And I thought, well, that sounds like a great idea. And so that was all set up. Then I met Angus. He was flying in and out literally, from Toronto, where I was living at the time. And we met,