Tell Me About Your Mother": Untangling Childhood's Hidden Traps with "The Good Daughter Syndrome" Author Katherine Fabrizio
Waking Up to Narcissism - A podcast by Tony Overbay LMFT

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Are you constantly trying to please your mother but never feeling good enough? Do you take responsibility for her emotional well-being? If you've ever found yourself stuck in these patterns, this episode is essential listening — and men, don't skip this one! Host Tony Overbay discovered he might have a little "Good Daughter Syndrome" himself.In this illuminating conversation, psychotherapist Katherine Fabrizio https://daughtersrising.info/ shares her 35 years of experience working with daughters of difficult mothers, including her own journey breaking away from practicing therapy alongside her controlling mother. With refreshing candor and hard-earned wisdom, Katherine reveals:* The four psychological traps that keep "good daughters" stuck: the never good enough trap, the guilt trap, the self-doubt trap, and the mixed message trap* Why setting even small boundaries can provide crucial data about your relationship* How to break free without it being a "zero-sum game" where someone must lose* Why your mother's narcissistic defenses will protect her, even when you start setting boundaries* The paralyzing internal conflict of feeling selfish when you differentiate from mom* With multiple awards, including Gold Medalist for Parenting & Relationships from The Global Book Awards, Katherine's book "The Good Daughter Syndrome" offers hope to those caught in these destructive dynamics.Whether you identify as a "good daughter" or simply want to understand the complex mother-daughter relationship, this conversation provides actionable insights for reclaiming your sovereignty and building a life that truly belongs to you."When you wake up and realize you've been ceding your sovereignty to somebody else... it's incredibly empowering." - Katherine Fabrizio00:00 Introduction and Announcements01:35 Emotional Immaturity Epidemic03:32 The Good Daughter Syndrome08:12 Interview with Catherine Fabrizio11:03 Catherine's Personal Journey17:37 Understanding Narcissistic Dynamics26:40 Setting Boundaries with Narcissistic Mothers27:35 The Never Good Enough Trap28:40 The Guilt Trap29:11 Navigating Divorce and Co-Parenting33:54 The Self-Doubt Trap38:59 The Mixed Message Trap46:23 Empowerment and Differentiation