23 Foundational Series: Conflict Resolution Formular

Whole Life Healing - A podcast by Dr. Alexander Loyd

This episode of Cutting Edge is part of a foundational series that we will be featuring. Please forgive the inferior sound quality, as this was a recorded conference call. On this episode, Dr. Alex shares with us the conflict resolution formula. Very few people actually enjoy conflict, but by using this formula, you can learn not to dread it, and perhaps even look forward to it. In this spiritual conflict resolution formula, you may lose what you want in order to win what you really want. Step 1: Pray with a sincere heart for the situation, yourself, and the other person. Step 2: Speak to the person directly. Do not talk to others about the person or situation. Step 3: Find out the objective truth about the situation; this includes the perspectives of yourself, the other person, God, and others. Face and accept the truth and desire success for yourself and the other person. Step 4: Be as wise as a serpent and as gentle as a dove (Matthew 10:16). Step 5: Come to a mutually beneficial conclusion that will give you a better relationship than you had before this conflict. This conclusion should be a win/win for your relationship and the circumstance. Step 6: Be willing to lose what you want to win what you really want. Your true desire is love, joy, and peace, so you may have to surrender lesser desires to ensure that you never give these things up. Even if this means that the conflict takes longer to resolve, it is worth it. You can join Dr. Alex each Wednesday for the live podcast covering the topics of health, wellness, relationships, and success, pertaining to the whole life: mind, body and spirit. They are held every Wednesday afternoon and are completely free to anyone who would like to join. As a bonus, a few callers can get a free personal custom code for any issue bothering them. https://www.dralexanderloyd.com/calls