20: Embracing Life's Transformations: Yoga, Resilience, and Self-Discovery with Harmony Slater

I am delighted to have my dear friend Harmony Slater on the podcast with me today. Harmony is one of the most honest and down-to-earth people I know and one of the most advanced yoga practitioners in the world. She and I share a history of traveling to India over the last 20 years to deepen our yoga practices. Harmony is a powerhouse with a great sense of humor. She is a mom, a National Board-Certified Life and Business Coach, a Spinal Energetics practitioner, and a yoga teacher. In this episode, we dive into her daily routines, the evolution of yoga over 25 years, and what it feels like to navigate aging and transformative personal work. Stay tuned. You will not want to miss this deep and meaningful conversation with Harmony Slater.Yoga BackgroundHer studies in philosophy and Eastern religions shaped Harmony's early understanding of yoga. She first encountered yoga in 1995 and experimented casually by attending classes here and there. Back then, she viewed yoga as a spiritual practice, a set of physical and meditative tools to connect with the divine reality or self-awareness. After nearly 25 years of practice, however, she describes yoga as far more than tools or practices. It has evolved into a way of being for her, shaping how she interacts with herself, others, and the world around her. Navigating Life Transitions with YogaYoga acts as a bridge, connecting the calm of inner stillness with the challenges of everyday life. Regular practice builds resilience and cultivates discipline, which you can apply to everyday responsibilities like making breakfast, driving kids to school, or managing work. Over time, yoga becomes less about long, immersive sessions and more about adapting its principles to the rhythm of life, enabling practitioners to approach challenges with grace and presence.Facing Identity and Letting Go of AchievementYoga provides an opportunity to explore the identity beyond external accomplishments as the process involves confronting emotions, navigating uncertainties, and embracing shifts in self-perception. Harmony turned to spiritual coaching to support her yoga journey, incorporating somatic awareness and energy work to foster greater self-understanding.The Transformative Journey of ConsciousnessYoga brings awareness to previously ignored parts of the body and mind, releasing stored emotions and patterns. While early stages of practice feel transformational, long-term practice leads to subtler but equally profound insights. Yoga and the Trance StatePracticing Ashtanga Yoga often creates a trance state, where the yoga practitioner experiences deep focus and heightened sensations. Many yoga practitioners wish they could remain in that state but recognize the importance of integrating yoga lessons into everyday life.Building Resilience Through DisciplineA regular yoga practice builds resilience and consistency. The discipline of showing up on the mat daily teaches practitioners how to handle challenges in other areas of life, allowing them to approach life steadily, even when unable to dedicate much time to yoga practices.Running a Business as a Spiritual PathFor yoga teachers, running a business can be an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. Building a business forces practitioners to examine their internal blocks and align their work with a deeper purpose of serving others.Confronting Ego and FearHarmony highlights the importance of addressing the ego and nervous system responses when taking risks. Despite some philosophical perspectives that ego and fear are not real, the nervous system still reacts as if they are. By unpacking those emotions and patterns, individuals can integrate their fear and anxieties, reducing their power. That...