Episode 105: Love, Part 1: Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places
Psychology Has It Backwards - A podcast by Christine Heath and Judy Sedgeman - Saturdays
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If we expect love to "happen to us," or to "come from" someone else to make us whole, we are setting ourselves up for a lifetime of disappointment. Love comes from within, from our own soul-felt connection to life, and when we find that feeling within ourselves, we attract others who want to share it. Many people believe they need something outside themselves, a relationship, or a person, in order to love and be loved. Coming from "need" with others is coming from insecurity...