139 Episodes

  1. 118. Christmas After Betrayal: Create Something New

    Published: 12/25/2024
  2. 117. Dealing With The Online Comments Section After Infidelity

    Published: 12/18/2024
  3. 116. Religion and Betrayal: A Match made in Hell

    Published: 12/11/2024
  4. 115. Staying for the Kids: Parenting After Betrayal

    Published: 12/4/2024
  5. 114. Is Porn Even Cheating? with Porn Addiction Coach, Matt Smith

    Published: 11/27/2024
  6. 113. Emotional Affairs: The Betrayal You Can’t See

    Published: 11/20/2024
  7. 112. Redefining Manhood: Purpose, Identity, and the Role of Infidelity

    Published: 11/13/2024
  8. 111. It’s Over, But I’m Still Stuck: The Ghosts of Infidelity That Won’t Go Away (3/3)

    Published: 11/6/2024
  9. 110. Why Can’t We Heal? When the Unfaithful Partner's Best Efforts Still Fall Short (2/3)

    Published: 10/30/2024
  10. 109. You Cheated, So Why Am I the One Fixing Things? (1/3)

    Published: 10/23/2024
  11. 108. Is Your Relationship Due for an Update?

    Published: 10/16/2024
  12. 107. Why Relationship Statistics Are Wrong About You

    Published: 10/9/2024
  13. 106. Why Men Can’t Win: And Why Women Need to Hear This

    Published: 10/2/2024
  14. 105. The Shock of a Same-Sex Affair: Healing After an Unexpected Betrayal

    Published: 9/25/2024
  15. 104. Don't Heal - The Inverse Approach After Infidelity

    Published: 9/18/2024
  16. 103. Why I Love Breaking the Rules of Infidelity: Societal Expectations Debunked

    Published: 9/11/2024
  17. 102. Doing the Work After the Affair

    Published: 9/4/2024
  18. 101. Afraid to Be Seen? The Hard Truth About Validation and Betrayal

    Published: 8/28/2024
  19. 100. The Anniversaries We Hate: Redefining Time and Memory

    Published: 8/21/2024
  20. 99. The Want Match: Aligning Desires After Betrayal

    Published: 8/14/2024

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The ‘After the affair’ podcast with Luke Shillings is here to help you process, decide, and move forward on purpose following infidelity. Let’s explore what’s required to rebuild trust not only in yourself, but also with others. Whether you stay or leave, I can help! and no matter what your story, there will be something here for you.