139 Episodes

  1. 98. Trickle Truth: The Pain of Gradual Disclosure in Infidelity

    Published: 8/7/2024
  2. 97. Time to Choose: Infidelity and the Truth We Face

    Published: 7/31/2024
  3. 96. Why Being Right Is Destroying Your Relationship

    Published: 7/24/2024
  4. 95. Healing from Betrayal Using Internal Family Systems (IFS)

    Published: 7/17/2024
  5. 94. Lover vs. Provider: Exploring the Complexities of Infidelity

    Published: 7/10/2024
  6. 93. The Stories We Tell Ourselves: The Symbolism of Betrayal

    Published: 7/3/2024
  7. 92. When Apologies Don't Cut It After Infidelity: Moving Beyond Dependency

    Published: 6/26/2024
  8. 91. What Are Your Beliefs Costing You?

    Published: 6/19/2024
  9. 90. The Neuroscience of Trust and Betrayal

    Published: 6/12/2024
  10. 89. I Bet You Have Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms: How to Spot them After Infidelity

    Published: 6/5/2024
  11. 88. Hysterical Bonding: Navigating Intense Emotions After Infidelity

    Published: 5/29/2024
  12. 87. The Power of Compersion: What Polyamory can teach us about Healing from Infidelity

    Published: 5/22/2024
  13. 86. Why Affairs Don't Last

    Published: 5/15/2024
  14. 85. Instructions Not Included: Why You Suck at Relationships

    Published: 5/8/2024
  15. 84. Breaking the Ranks: Navigating Infidelity in Military Marriages with Caz Grant

    Published: 5/1/2024
  16. 83. Contemplating Infidelity: The Weight of Unseen Thoughts in Relationships

    Published: 4/24/2024
  17. 82. Growth After Betrayal: Universal Truths

    Published: 4/17/2024
  18. 81. Your Wife is Having an Affair. I Know Because it's with My Husband

    Published: 4/10/2024
  19. 80. Should I Contact the Affair Partner?

    Published: 4/3/2024
  20. 79. Betrayal Unpacked: Two Ways to Heal

    Published: 3/27/2024

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The ‘After the affair’ podcast with Luke Shillings is here to help you process, decide, and move forward on purpose following infidelity. Let’s explore what’s required to rebuild trust not only in yourself, but also with others. Whether you stay or leave, I can help! and no matter what your story, there will be something here for you.