139 Episodes

  1. 78. A Story of Betrayal: No Place Like Home

    Published: 3/20/2024
  2. 77. The Intricate Dance Between People Pleasing and Infidelity

    Published: 3/13/2024
  3. 76. Addicted to an Affair with David Essel

    Published: 3/6/2024
  4. 75. 8 Steps to Healing part 2: Rebuilding and Renewal

    Published: 2/28/2024
  5. 74. 8 Steps to Healing part 1: Laying the Foundations

    Published: 2/21/2024
  6. 73. The Empathy Challenge: Conflict After Infidelity

    Published: 2/14/2024
  7. 72. How to Get Over Your Ex: With Breakup Coach Dorothy

    Published: 2/7/2024
  8. 71. Is Forgiveness Necessary? Can You Reconcile Without It?

    Published: 1/31/2024
  9. 70. The 3rd Law of Conflict: Can Isaac Newton Help us Heal?

    Published: 1/24/2024
  10. 69. Intimacy After Infidelity: Under the Sheets with Sex Expert, Lee-ann Cordingley

    Published: 1/17/2024
  11. 68. Reward or Punishment: Rewriting Our Reward System After an Affair

    Published: 1/10/2024
  12. 67. Facing Failure after Infidelity: Shifting the Narrative

    Published: 1/3/2024
  13. 66. Farewell 2023: A Year of Recovery, Resilience, and Reflection

    Published: 12/27/2023
  14. 65. Choice or Obligation: Should I stay or leave after the affair?

    Published: 12/20/2023
  15. 64. Benefits of Healing from Infidelity

    Published: 12/13/2023
  16. 63. What if it was me? Self-Reflection in the Wake of Betrayal

    Published: 12/6/2023
  17. 62. Overcoming Thought Addiction after Betrayal

    Published: 11/29/2023
  18. 61. Once a Cheater: Possibly a Keeper?

    Published: 11/22/2023
  19. 60. Gaslighting an Affair? Take a look in the Mirror

    Published: 11/15/2023
  20. 59. Trust After Betrayal: Is There Hope?

    Published: 11/8/2023

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The ‘After the affair’ podcast with Luke Shillings is here to help you process, decide, and move forward on purpose following infidelity. Let’s explore what’s required to rebuild trust not only in yourself, but also with others. Whether you stay or leave, I can help! and no matter what your story, there will be something here for you.