Pillow Talks

A podcast by Vanessa & Xander Marin | QCODE - Thursdays

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204 Episodes

  1. Episode 204: Confessions Of An Overactive Bladder

    Published: 4/17/2025
  2. EPISODE 203: Is This Cheating? Part 2

    Published: 4/10/2025
  3. EPISODE 202: Am I being defensive, or am I defending myself?

    Published: 4/3/2025
  4. EPISODE 201: Couples Coaching Session: They Love Each Other… So Why Does Their Sex Life Feel Stuck?

    Published: 3/27/2025
  5. EPISODE 200: 200 Episodes Later: Let’s Get Personal! (Ask Us Anything)

    Published: 3/20/2025
  6. EPISODE 199: Am I The Asshole? Masturbation, Snooping, and Jealousy

    Published: 3/13/2025
  7. EPISODE 198: Stop Doing THIS If You Want More Sex (Initiation Fixes You Need to Know)

    Published: 3/6/2025
  8. EPISODE 197: Ask A Sex Therapist - Resentment, Sexual Frustration, And The Death Grip

    Published: 2/27/2025
  9. EPISODE 196: 90 Prompts to Transform Your Sex Life (We Answer Some Live!)

    Published: 2/20/2025
  10. Episode 195: Giddyup, Cowgirl! Tips, Tricks, & Techniques For Maximum Pleasure

    Published: 2/13/2025
  11. Episode 194: What Your Partner Wishes You’d Stop Doing In The Bedroom Part 2

    Published: 2/6/2025
  12. Episode 193: The Things We Can’t Say In The Comments

    Published: 1/30/2025
  13. Episode 192: “Is This Normal?” Part 4 — Low Desire Husband, Never Had A Fight, & Baby Talk

    Published: 1/23/2025
  14. Episode 191: Breaking Free From Purity Culture And Religious Shame

    Published: 1/16/2025
  15. Episode 190: Am I Being Reasonable Or Ridiculous?

    Published: 1/9/2025
  16. Episode 189: Can We Have A Fresh Start? Or Is It Too Late?

    Published: 1/2/2025
  17. Episode 188: Is Your Ultimatum Going To Work?

    Published: 12/26/2024
  18. Episode 187: Am I The Asshole? The Holiday Edition Part 2

    Published: 12/19/2024
  19. Episode 186: Period Sex, Internal Vs External Processors, & Queer In A Straight Relationship

    Published: 12/12/2024
  20. Episode 185: How To Navigate Porn In Your Relationship

    Published: 12/5/2024

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Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It’s the sex education you WISH you’d had!