Pillow Talks

A podcast by Vanessa & Xander Marin - Thursdays

143 Episodes

  1. Episode 123: A Parent’s Guide To Making Time For Sex And Intimacy

    Published: 9/28/2023
  2. Episode 122: “Don’t Touch Me Like That”: Confronting Unwanted Touch In Your Relationship

    Published: 9/21/2023
  3. Episode 121: When She Wants It More: Navigating Mismatched Libidos When The Woman Has A Higher Drive

    Published: 9/14/2023
  4. Episode 120: “Why Do Guys Do This?” - Xander Explains Male Behavior

    Published: 9/7/2023
  5. Episode 119: Jealousy In Relationships: Why Do We Get Jealous, And What Do We Do About It?

    Published: 8/31/2023
  6. Episode 118: The Foreplay Episode: The 5 Things We’re All Getting Wrong

    Published: 8/24/2023
  7. Episode 117: So You Think You Know Us? Answering Your Assumptions!

    Published: 8/17/2023
  8. Episode 116: What Do I Do When My Partner Is Always On Their Phone?

    Published: 8/10/2023
  9. Episode 115: Grief And Sex: Loving Each Other Through A Loss

    Published: 8/3/2023
  10. Episode 114: Can We Come Back From This? Part 2: Even More Relationship Make Or Break Moments

    Published: 7/27/2023
  11. Episode 113: Bump And Grind: Sex During Pregnancy

    Published: 7/20/2023
  12. Episode 112: Creating A Shortcut To Intimacy With Compliments

    Published: 7/13/2023
  13. Episode 111: What To Do When Your Partner Doesn’t Want To Talk About Sex

    Published: 7/6/2023
  14. Episode 110: Unzipped And Unfiltered: Your Funniest Sex Fails

    Published: 6/29/2023
  15. Episode 109: This ONE Thing Is Secretly Affecting Your ENTIRE Relationship

    Published: 6/22/2023
  16. Episode 108: “Help! I’ve Been Faking Orgasms So Long I Don’t Know How To Stop!”

    Published: 6/15/2023
  17. Episode 107: Ask Each Other Anything: Celebrating Our Queer Community With A Q&A

    Published: 6/8/2023
  18. Episode 106: Exposing Our Biggest Relationship Frustrations With Enneagram Expert Tracy O’Malley

    Published: 6/1/2023
  19. Episode 105: “Is This Normal?” 2.0 — More Questions You Never Dared To Ask Out Loud

    Published: 5/25/2023
  20. Episode 104: An Exclusive Sneak Peek: Chapter One Of Sex Talks

    Published: 5/18/2023

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Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It’s the sex education you WISH you’d had!