Porn, Betrayal, Sex and the Experts — PBSE

250 Episodes

1. What Happens when Porn Use/Sex Addiction is Blamed on the so-called “Inadequacies” of a Partner?

   Published: 8/29/2023
2. After My Lying and Gaslighting, My Partner Won’t Believe Me! How Do I Show True Empathy & Rebuild Trust?

   Published: 8/22/2023
3. Boundaries, Trauma and “Long-Distance-Sex”–Where do We Go From Here?

   Published: 8/15/2023
4. Will Confronting my Addict’s "Acting-Out Partners" Help Me Heal?

   Published: 8/8/2023
5. What Place Does “Edging” Have or Not Have in Healthy Recovery and Healing a Relationship?

   Published: 8/1/2023
6. My Partner’s Definition of “What is Porn” is Different from Mine—We are at an Impasse—Now What?!

   Published: 7/25/2023
7. My Porn/Sex Addict Partner’s “Empathy Button” is Broken! What Can I Do?

   Published: 7/18/2023
8. How can we Connect When My Partner Acts Out and Then Goes to Shame—Silent, Stoic and Self-Absorbed?!

   Published: 7/11/2023
9. “Clearing Away the Wreckage of Your Past"—Recovery Lessons from Steve’s Metal Detecting Trip

   Published: 7/4/2023
10. I Want My Addict Partner to SUFFER; to Feel TERRIBLE like I do! Is that Normal? How Can I Stop this Feeling?!

    Published: 6/27/2023
11. Evolve from Treating the “Symptoms of Addiction” to a Real & Lasting “Change of Heart & Mind."

    Published: 6/20/2023
12. Should I Pay Off My New Spouse's "Porn Debt" So We Can Have a Solid Financial Start?

    Published: 6/13/2023
13. Is There a “Statute of Limitations” on Feelings, Betrayal Trauma and Disclosure?

    Published: 6/6/2023
14. How do I Stop Comparing Myself to Porn and His Sexual Fantasies?

    Published: 5/30/2023
15. If “Sex is Optional,” How can a Couple Possibly Stay Connected?!

    Published: 5/23/2023
16. How Can We Avoid the Traps and Pitfalls of Addiction Recovery and Betrayal Trauma Healing?

    Published: 5/16/2023
17. What Keeps us Stuck in Addiction and What Does “Real” Recovery Look Like?

    Published: 5/9/2023
18. What Happens When we “Weaponize” What Could be “Healthy Boundaries”?

    Published: 5/2/2023
19. “Normal Human Attraction” vs. “Toxic/Betraying Lust”?

    Published: 4/25/2023
20. What can I do about “Random ED Symptoms” in Sexual Intimacy with my Partner?!

    Published: 4/18/2023