280 Episodes

  1. Why do Betrayed Partners Feel Unsafe? What does it take to Feel Safe Again and Why is this Critical to Healing?

    Published: 11/7/2023

  2. Episode 200!!! What Does it Mean to “Dare” in Your Relationship?

    Published: 10/31/2023

  3. You Can Rewire Your Subconscious Mind—and Break Out of Porn/Sex Addiction!

    Published: 10/24/2023

  4. SPECIAL EPISODE! For My Recovery & My Partner’s Healing—How Can I Stop “Scanning in Public”?

    Published: 10/17/2023

  5. Sick and Tired of the Roller Coaster Ride of Porn/Sex Addiction? Here Are Some Simple Tools to Start Breaking Free.

    Published: 10/10/2023

  6. My Spouse “Fooled” Me and Everyone in Our Family for Years! Now I Can’t Stand to Even Look at Him! Is there any Hope for us?

    Published: 10/3/2023

  7. What is the Difference Between “Codependence” and Authentic Feelings & Boundaries?

    Published: 9/26/2023

  8. How Can a Porn/Sex Addict in Recovery, most effectively project His Authenticity and Higher Self?

    Published: 9/19/2023

  9. What is “His” Role and “Her” Role in Rebuilding Trust?

    Published: 9/12/2023

  10. Should I Marry My Porn-Addicted Fiancé or Move On?

    Published: 9/5/2023

  11. What Happens when Porn Use/Sex Addiction is Blamed on the so-called “Inadequacies” of a Partner?

    Published: 8/29/2023

  12. After My Lying and Gaslighting, My Partner Won’t Believe Me! How Do I Show True Empathy & Rebuild Trust?

    Published: 8/22/2023

  13. Boundaries, Trauma and “Long-Distance-Sex”–Where do We Go From Here?

    Published: 8/15/2023

  14. Will Confronting my Addict’s "Acting-Out Partners" Help Me Heal?

    Published: 8/8/2023

  15. What Place Does “Edging” Have or Not Have in Healthy Recovery and Healing a Relationship?

    Published: 8/1/2023

  16. My Partner’s Definition of “What is Porn” is Different from Mine—We are at an Impasse—Now What?!

    Published: 7/25/2023

  17. My Porn/Sex Addict Partner’s “Empathy Button” is Broken! What Can I Do?

    Published: 7/18/2023

  18. How can we Connect When My Partner Acts Out and Then Goes to Shame—Silent, Stoic and Self-Absorbed?!

    Published: 7/11/2023

  19. “Clearing Away the Wreckage of Your Past"—Recovery Lessons from Steve’s Metal Detecting Trip

    Published: 7/4/2023

  20. I Want My Addict Partner to SUFFER; to Feel TERRIBLE like I do! Is that Normal? How Can I Stop this Feeling?!

    Published: 6/27/2023

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Two sex addicts in long-term successful recovery are ALSO world-class Counselors who specialize in porn and sex addiction recovery. Drawing on 40 years of combined personal and professional experience, Mark and Steve get RAW and REAL about HOW to overcome addiction, heal betrayal trauma and save your marriage. If you're struggling with addiction—we get it. Recovery is hard. We've been there. We'll help you take the fight to your addiction like never before. If you're married to an addict—we KNOW what it's like to nearly destroy a marriage! We'll help you understand the world of your husband's addiction and begin healing your betrayal trauma, regardless of what he decides to do. You don't have to stay stuck. You don't have to keep suffering. We've made all the mistakes so you don't have to. Take back your life. Take back your marriage. Let's do this together! This is the PBSE podcast.