280 Episodes

  1. Evolve from Treating the “Symptoms of Addiction” to a Real & Lasting “Change of Heart & Mind."

    Published: 6/20/2023
  2. Should I Pay Off My New Spouse's "Porn Debt" So We Can Have a Solid Financial Start?

    Published: 6/13/2023
  3. Is There a “Statute of Limitations” on Feelings, Betrayal Trauma and Disclosure?

    Published: 6/6/2023
  4. How do I Stop Comparing Myself to Porn and His Sexual Fantasies?

    Published: 5/30/2023
  5. If “Sex is Optional,” How can a Couple Possibly Stay Connected?!

    Published: 5/23/2023
  6. How Can We Avoid the Traps and Pitfalls of Addiction Recovery and Betrayal Trauma Healing?

    Published: 5/16/2023
  7. What Keeps us Stuck in Addiction and What Does “Real” Recovery Look Like?

    Published: 5/9/2023
  8. What Happens When we “Weaponize” What Could be “Healthy Boundaries”?

    Published: 5/2/2023
  9. “Normal Human Attraction” vs. “Toxic/Betraying Lust”?

    Published: 4/25/2023
  10. What can I do about “Random ED Symptoms” in Sexual Intimacy with my Partner?!

    Published: 4/18/2023
  11. Why are Sexual Boundaries Critical for a truly "Connected Coupleship"?

    Published: 4/11/2023
  12. As a Partner in Betrayal Trauma, I Feel Resentment Toward my Addict Partner. How do I Manage this?!

    Published: 4/4/2023
  13. How a lifetime of “Communication Trauma” can prevent “Healthy Connection” in the Here and Now.

    Published: 3/28/2023
  14. The “Fallacy of Fairness”—Why I Cannot Stand Up For Myself with my Partner

    Published: 3/21/2023
  15. What Does a Formal, Full “Disclosure” Look Like?

    Published: 3/14/2023
  16. Having Trouble with “Couples Check-ins”? Give this a Shot.

    Published: 3/7/2023
  17. When it comes to boundaries and consequences in recovery and healing, what is “my side of the street vs. his"?

    Published: 2/28/2023
  18. Is all this “Recovery & Healing Crap” really Worth it? Hope for Couples.

    Published: 2/21/2023
  19. Stop Focusing on your "Addiction Symptoms” and Get to your Core Issues!

    Published: 2/14/2023
  20. Is there any “Good” to be Learned from Sex Addiction Behaviors and Betrayal Trauma?

    Published: 2/7/2023

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Two sex addicts in long-term successful recovery are ALSO world-class Counselors who specialize in porn and sex addiction recovery. Drawing on 40 years of combined personal and professional experience, Mark and Steve get RAW and REAL about HOW to overcome addiction, heal betrayal trauma and save your marriage. If you're struggling with addiction—we get it. Recovery is hard. We've been there. We'll help you take the fight to your addiction like never before. If you're married to an addict—we KNOW what it's like to nearly destroy a marriage! We'll help you understand the world of your husband's addiction and begin healing your betrayal trauma, regardless of what he decides to do. You don't have to stay stuck. You don't have to keep suffering. We've made all the mistakes so you don't have to. Take back your life. Take back your marriage. Let's do this together! This is the PBSE podcast.